Building a Healthy Relationship By Slowing Things Down

We all want a healthy relationship, but sometimes they are just so hard to find...

The list of possible issues of boyfriend trouble seems never-ending...
But what if instead of having boyfriend problems, you are having problems just getting the boyfriend to begin with?

This page will cover a topic that you won't find on many dating tips for teens websites. Yet, so many girls fall into this problem: the spiral of physicality.

It's the phenomena when you engage in a little intimate "physical" activity with someone and they automatically expect progression to the next level of intimacy next time.

The question is: "where is the line drawn; when does it stop?"

It is no secret that men's testosterone is sky-high in comparison with women, so you know his ultimate goal right off the bat. All men love and want sex - it is that simple.

The purpose of this article is to help you decide what is the best approach for answering the question of "How far should we go physically and how soon?" - Knowing the answer and following it can bring your dating life to a completely new level of success.

First, you need to understand and accept that if a man can get "action" from you without entering into a relationship, he will do so (especially if you date younger men). You don't need to visit a dating tips for teens website to know that. To think anything else is just silly.

This truth doesn't make him sleazy, or a player, or incapable of having a healthy relationship.

In fact, from most people's perspective, it's a smart move.

If you could get something you want without having to work for it, wouldn't you take it? Absolutely - you would take it with a big smile on your face too.

Countless girls forget this reality. They meet a guy and feel that he is Mr. Right. They sleep together and the next thing she knows, Mr. Right has turned into Mr. I-Don't-Call-Anymore. (Why? Click here to find out why he doesn't call.) It can be a complex situation, but luckily, the method of prevention isn't.

(More specifically, "going slow" physically early on leads to more potential for a successful relationship later on).

Make "Less is More" your motto; live your dating life by it. Also, remember that the only way for you to get used for sex is if you allow yourself to be.

Instead of striving to please a man's physical desires in hopes that it will make him stick around and become dedicated to you, go slow; follow your own schedule.

If you only want to kiss - just kiss.

If you only want to hold hands - just hold hands.

If you want a serious, healthy relationship, respect the proven process and don't even consider going past second base until a guy carries the title of your "boyfriend".

Also, this plan of action will help you avoid future boyfriend problems by showing him now that you won't be pressured into doing things that you don't want to do.

Following the above guidelines will help you greatly, you'll see.

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